With a new bundle on the way
later this year, I am sharing my journey all over again on here and I am also really excited to be an
ambassador for Natural Birthing Company. Even though I have been through pregnancy,
birth and baby before, every time is different, there’s always something new
out there to try or learn and I feel new to it all again somehow.
I am all
about being prepared, so working with this lovely brand is a great way for me
to do things a bit differently.
Here's a quick preview of my first guest post for them...
My first baby
I was lucky when I was pregnant
with Ethan; everything went to plan, pretty much, and I enjoyed every stage. I
didn’t really have morning sickness and apart from my aversion to giving blood
(I always have a funny turn when they do it!) it all went along well. My labour
experience wasn’t as positive unfortunately; I was kept and monitored for high
blood pressure for several hours as the contractions strengthened and in the
end, needed an epidural which then led to the need for assistance so a quick
episiotomy and forceps delivery brought Ethan safely into the world.
What I wasn’t fully prepared for
was how I felt afterwards. I was keen to get home and well enough to be
discharged in the late afternoon, and stumbled into the blur of having a
newborn – and stitches ‘down there’ to care for. In the first week, along with
sleep deprivation, which later brought on hallucinations, I knew the discomfort
I was feeling couldn’t be right and took myself back to the hospital to find
that my wound had an infection. Antibiotics and three dips a day in a bath with
tea tree oil drops in helped things to heal nicely after this point, but I
won’t ever forget how I felt within myself during those early days.
Preparing for baby 2
Fast-forward to now, and I will
be honest and say that I do have some anxiety about labour. I loved being
pregnant before and I am really embracing it again – not least because we had a
miscarriage this time last year, at 13.5 weeks, and because ever since Ethan
found out he was going to be a big brother, his excitement, care and attention
has been so wonderful to see. I want to do more this time around to prepare
myself mentally, physically and emotionally for the journey ahead and for
bringing this baby into the world.
I know that things will work out,
but the more I read, try and prep for, the better I feel, and working with
Natural Birthing Company will help me discover new ways of approaching this
whole having a baby thing.
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